The Power of Friendship: Why You Should Consider Looking for a Platonic Soulmate
When most people think of soulmates, they think of romantic relationships. But what about platonic soulmates? Platonic soulmates are friends who are so compatible with each other that they might as well be lovers. They have a deep connection and share a strong bond that goes beyond words. If you’re looking for a meaningful and fulfilling relationship, you should consider looking for a platonic soulmate. Let’s explore how you can bring a platonic soulmate into your life.
“You’ve got a friend in me”
Have you ever noticed how there is no shortage of songs and movies about love and romance, but there are very few about platonic friend relationships? That’s because platonic friendships are often taken for granted. But the truth is, Platonic relationships can be just as rewarding and fulfilling as romantic ones. In fact, they can be even more so.
Platonic soulmates understand each other on a deep level
One of the best things about having a platonic soulmate is that you can be yourself around them. You don’t have to put on a show or pretend to be someone you’re not. Platonic soulmates understand and accept each other for who they are. They know each other’s strengths and weaknesses and love each other unconditionally.
A Platonic relationship is the perfect balance of friendship and love
Platonic soulmates are more than just friends. They’re the perfect balance of friendship and love. They provide emotional support and feel like family. But they also give you the space to be your own person. Platonic soulmates know how to make you feel loved without smothering you.
5 Signs you have already met your platonic soulmate:
1) You have a deep connection that goes beyond words.
You can communicate with each other without saying a word. You understand each other’s thoughts and feelings just by looking into each other’s eyes. There is a deep level of understanding and communication between you that goes beyond words.
2) You share a strong bond.
You have a strong emotional connection and share a special bond. You’re there for each other through thick and thin. No matter what happens, you know that your Platonic soulmate will always be there for you.
3) Your relationship has been tested and passed with flying colors.
You’ve been through a lot together and your relationship has only gotten stronger. You know that you can rely on each other no matter what. Perhaps they were there for you during a crisis or helped you through a tough time. Whatever the case may be, your relationship has been tested and it has passed with flying colors.
4) You have a strong physical connection.
You’re attracted to each other on a physical level. This doesn’t mean that you want to have sex with each other (although that is certainly possible). It just means that you enjoy being close to each other and sharing Platonic affection. You might hug each other, hold hands, or cuddle.
5) Platonic soulmates complete each other
Platonic soulmates are like two pieces of a puzzle. They fit together perfectly and complete each other. Platonic soulmates make each other better people. They inspire and motivate each other to be the best that they can be.
What if you haven’t found your friend soulmate yet?
Maybe you’ve moved and lost touch with your old friend group, or maybe you are just looking to reset your social circle. Whatever the case may be, don’t worry. It’s never too late to find your platonic soulmate. There are a few things you can do to increase the chances of finding them.
5 methods to finding your platonic soulmate match
Method One: Platonic Dating Sites
There are now platonic dating sites where you can meet like-minded people who are looking for Platonic relationships. This is a great way to find potential friendly soulmates since you know that everyone on the site is open to the idea of platonic relationships.
Method Two: Meetup Groups
There are meetup groups for just about everything these days. And there are certainly platonic meetups where you can mingle and make new friends. This is a great way to find potential besties because you already have something in common with them (i.e. the desire for friendship relationships).
Method Three: Volunteer
Volunteering is a great way to meet new people and make friends. Not only will you be doing good for your community, but you’ll also have the opportunity to meet potential lifelong relationships. Typically when you volunteer, you are surrounded by “good people” which makes Platonic soulmate finding much easier.
Method Four: Professional Networking
As much as work is a chore, sometimes it’s nice to be surrounded by like-minded career-oriented individuals. If your ideal bestie is someone who values the grind and hustle, then it’s only logical that you would seek them out in professional networking events. Platonic business relationships can sometimes blossom into something more, so it’s always worth a shot.
Method Five: Put yourself out there
After the isolation of the recent lockdowns, it can feel almost alien to put yourself out there and meet new people. But it’s important to do so if you want to find your platonic soulmate. Get out of your comfort zone and attend events, classes, or social gatherings where you can mingle with new people. Don’t be afraid to let people know that you’re looking for a platonic relationship.
Go the extra mile with affirmations
I know it may seem like pseudo-science, but positive affirmations can work wonders. By telling yourself that you are worthy of platonic love and that you will find your ideal friend, you are opening yourself up to the possibility. The more you believe it, the more likely it is to happen. So go ahead and give it a try. It’s not different than the positive thinking principles.
10 Affirmations for friendship
“I am open to making new platonic friends.”
“I attract kind, like-minded individuals into my life.”
“I am worthy of Platonic love and friendship.”
“I release all judgment of myself and others.”
“I let go of any preconceived notions about who my platonic soulmate should be.”
“I am open to the possibilities of Platonic relationships.”
“I am willing to let go of my fear of rejection.”
“I am worthy of being loved and accepted for who I am.”
“I love and approve of myself just the way I am.”
“My Platonic soulmate is out there, and I attract them into my life now.”
If you’re still on the hunt for your platonic soulmate, don’t despair. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and you’ll find them eventually. Just keep putting yourself out there and meeting new people. And don’t forget to use positive affirmations to attract your ideal platonic friend into your life. Good luck!